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October 21, 2008

Brown Owls



A lifetime ago, when I was still a corporate girl and pregnant with Argy, I went for one of my regular prenatal check-ups. Everything was going well, but I commented to my obstetrician that I was feeling a little down. The grind of working long hours in a managerial job and waddling around looking 178 weeks pregnant were getting to me.

"What you need", said my lovely, down-to-earth and very direct obstetrician "is a hobby. Something where you are working with your hands. Something you can do in a group with other women. Knitting or sewing, perhaps? You girls these days don't understand the importance of doing such things."

Well pah to that I thought. I already have a hobby - its called work. I dismissed the whole idea out of hand; filing it away as old-fashioned. I thought little about her advice again until recently. Out of the workforce for three and a half years now, I've come to better understand the life part of work-life balance. So more recently, when I started to see references to Brown Owls popping up everywhere, I paid attention.

Craft. Girls. Group. And Brown Owls didn't sound at all old-fashioned.

Last night was my first visit. With my level of embroidery skill, I initially felt a little bit like a deer in headlights. But in fact it wasn't at all scary. There is something quite unique about combining the meditative quality of handiwork with the lively hum of talk and laughter. What a lovely atmosphere; what gorgeous people. Crafting heroes Pip and Kirsty, have created something very special indeed.

It was just what the doctor ordered.

17 comments:

  1. I've been learning about the "life" part of the equation myself. It's good isn't it? I'm very jealous of all of the lucky Melbourne gals who are visiting Brown Owls.

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  2. I totally agree with the doctor : )

    My craft group is so theraputic (spell?). Umm wished I lived in Melbourne to join Brown Owls...

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  3. I wish I'd been there to meet you! Your obstetrician is SO WISE, I must say.

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  4. oooh I was only looking at the Brown Owl website last night contemplating trying to go one day. I took note of the date next years memberships come up to contemplate some more... I think you've got me convinced!

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  5. Nicely put HB. Your embroidery bird looks great and Im with Amy - I think I may be a just a little bit jealous

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  6. I am so glad that we all got to sit around and share and that you weren't too afraid to go. I don't think it is scary at all. We should try and make it to another before the end of the year.

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  7. I've been looking wistfully at the Brown Owls site too. Can't do it right now but I can dream....

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  8. Oh your stitching looks fab! Love those colours!

    What a wise obstetrician!

    I love this story. Too good!

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  9. I was just thinking earlier tonight that I wasted SO many years concentrating on a career & not crafting, I figure I'm smarter now, if I go back to work again - I will balance my time with my crafts :)

    Your OB was a wise woman indeed!

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  10. You are so lucky to have a group like that! Sewing makes everything slow down in life. Before I would sew in the evening I was on work full speed ahead the entire day.

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  11. Wow, a doctor with some sensible advice....pick me up off the floor!

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  12. I'm planning to join Brown Owls next year. Hopefully we will cross paths in person.

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  13. :D Big yay! Nothing scary about us at all!
    I haven't got my work-life balance right yet...I can't embrace the work part! I mean I'm here in the office, but working...pffft!!

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  14. What a great post! Your OB is indeed wise

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  15. huh, that's really sweet. Glad you had fun :)

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  16. My hobby used to be work too ... well, office gossip really, and then work.

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  17. Hmmm I should get along to Brown Owls one of these days. Good luck with your embroidery!

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